Pace with Grace
(grief)4 min read

When Sorrow Feels Like a Second Skin

By the Pace with Grace editorial team

My tears have been my food day and night, while people say to me all day long, 'Where is your God?'

Grief can feel like a shroud, a second skin that you can't shake off. It's the weight that presses down on your chest, the fog that clouds your mind, the ache that echoes in your soul.

The Psalmist knew this feeling. He wrote about tears being his food, his constant companion. He was surrounded by people who questioned his faith, who asked where his God was in the midst of his sorrow.

My tears have been my food day and night, while people say to me all day long, 'Where is your God?' These things I remember as I pour out my soul: how I used to go to the house of God under the protection of the Mighty One with shouts of joy and praise among the festive throng.

Psalm 42:3-4

But here's the thing: the Psalmist didn't stop at his grief. He remembered the times when he felt God's presence, when he worshiped with joy and praise. He held onto those memories, even when his current reality felt dark and uncertain.

You can do the same. You can hold onto the memories of better days, of times when you felt God's presence, when you knew you were not alone. You can pour out your soul to God, even when it feels like He's far away.

God, my grief feels like a weight that's crushing me. I'm tired of carrying it, tired of feeling alone. Help me remember the times when I felt your presence, when I knew I was loved. Meet me in my sorrow, and remind me that you're always with me, even when it feels like you're far away. Amen.

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